Sometimes when things get out of hand, your husband can say things that wounds your soul, even shake you at the core.Īnd it is not always what he says, though that can be really bad, but it is how he says it. You both lose control of your emotions and when the fight ends, you can’t help but wonder what happened. Let’s say your reading this and you and your husband got into a terrible fight. It can be distressful trying to process the awful and ugly things your husband may have let loose in the midst of an argument.Īnd meanwhile, with all the incoming hate missiles coming your way, you might find yourself thinking whether you married the right guy in the first place. You may start to wonder if these things truly represent how he feels about you. Later, when the dust settles, you might start thinking about some of the bad things he said.

If you are often on the receiving end of “barbed” attacks by your husband (or let’s say it is your boyfriend or even your ex husband who is playing bad boy), you probably understand very well what it feels like to being on the receiving end of nasty comments. Those of us that have a lot of bad boy in us, can become blind in our rage. With the right recipe of emotions, a fight can emerge and a lot of words can just spill out. And that is how conflict in marriage can get started.

Well, not all of us are bad boys, but I do think just about all guys have some bad boy “attitude” in us.Īnd given the right circumstances, we can go “ Volcano“.Īll of us, whether we are talking husbands or wives, sometimes need to get things off our chest. These guys go off on you because they are a bit twisted inside. There is usually some other thing, which may be unrelated to you, that is causing them great consternation. It doesn’t necessarily mean that men are by nature, cruel and uncaring. Just the notion of having to do that can cause your husband to twist and squirm.Īnd as the story goes, guys are always shooting off their mouth and saying hurtful things to get a rise out of you. Most men are not so good at opening up and sharing their most precious inner thoughts. Then again, you can’t be sure because after all, he is a guy, right? And guys can act strange…. You might think that when your husband is saying he is “ tired of this“, what he is really referring to is the constant fighting or bickering that may be occurring with too much frequency. You may start to worry that your husband wants out of the relationship. You might rush to judgement and think that your husband is sick and tired of you and the marriage. For example, if you are in an argument with your husband and he says, “ I am sick and tired of this“, you may wonder, “ what does he really mean by that”? Sometimes it can be challenging to really understand what our spouses mean when they say certain things. Advice What Your Husband is Saying – What He Really Means

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